I’m Putting My Foot Down on 4-Way Stops
Despite St. Louis have way too many 4-way stops, this post is not about reducing the number of stops. No, I’m tired of the way 4-ways are treated in this town.
First we have the locally famous rolling stop. This involves letting off the gas and potentially applying the brakes in a very token effort. Very common among the locals, including police.
We also have the basically ignore the stop sign types that simply fly right through the intersections as if nobody else existed. These people are the reason we look left & right before proceeding.
Then we have the folks that think because they are on the bigger road that they have the right of way — regardless of who stopped first and who was to the right of whom. Conversely, we have the people that are on a smaller side street that have the right of way but refuse to go until the person on the bigger through street go first.
And then we have people that see me on my scooter and they simply freak out — “oh my gosh, a scooter, I don’t know what to do!” Seriously, it is often like people have never been to a 4-way stop before.
The rules are simple folks, whomever stops first has the next right of way.  Same time? The person on the right has the right of way. If someone is turning left, they need to turn behind the car that is going the opposite direction.
But drivers see my scooter and all of a sudden they want to toss out the rules and wave me through. I appreciate the thought, really I do, but we need to focus on following the time tested rules of 4-way stops — not toss them out because of a really cute scooter.
I continually face drivers at intersections where, due to timing or placement, know that the other person has the right of way. Often I get drivers that have the right of way try to wave me to go — but I know they have the right of way and that they will be turning right behind me. Don’t wave me through and then get right behind me — that really steams me. If it is your turn at the intersection, go. I’ll be behind you and that is just fine. Too often I’m working on stopping and balancing when someone already at the intersection is already trying to wave me through.
Now most skilled riders of 2-wheel vehicles can come to a nearly complete full stop without putting a foot on the pavement — balance is an excellent skill to have.  I’m pretty certain that technically a rider is considered to have run a stop sign if they don’t put a foot down but don’t quote me on that. So from a balance perspective at least I don’t need to put a foot down but I often do a 4-way stops with other drivers simply trying to communicate to them I am coming to a complete stop. Depending upon the situation, I will use my left or right foot to use body language to tell others drivers that I am still working on stopping. It helps sometimes.
The other day, near my house, I pull up to a 4-way stop. A guy in a large passenger van had already stopped at the left of me. He was on the bigger street while I was on a narrower side street. I looked at him and he wasn’t going. Mind you, I don’t just take off through an intersection in front of 3-ton vehicles that have the right of way. He had the windows down and started yelling something and making hand gestures (more than a single finger). But I couldn’t tell what he was saying. Finally, in a stroke of brilliance, the guy figured out a way to communicate what he’d be trying to say — he put on his right turn signal!! Yes, somehow using the turn signal to signal a turn had escaped him. Once I saw the signal I knew I could safely go. I went as soon as another driver that had pulled up to the intersection from the right made a right turn in the same direction I was going. Had the original driver communicated his intentions by using his turn signal things would have been so much easier.
I also see the people that try to wave me across but forget that it is dark outside and it is nearly impossible to see inside their car from across the intersection. I’ve also seen people, barely, driving cars with tinted windows trying to do the same.
Of course you have the opposite where people pull up to the stop, wait a few seconds and then go — without looking to see who else is around. Sometimes drivers simply assume that all intersections are 4-way. I’ve had people pull out in front of me because they stopped and just assumed I was going to stop as well even though my street didn’t have a stop sign.  Better yet are the ones that stop at the intersection even though they don’t have a stop sign.
What are your favorite 4-way stop observations?