Poll: readers mostly in unison on green living
A majority of readers in the poll last week seem to be well matched with mates who feel as they do about living a green lifestyle. (Poll: Your household divided by a green line?)
Poll: Does a green line divide your household? Between those who choose to live green and those that don’t?
- No problem, we’re on the same page: 52 [57%]
- I live alone: 20 [22%]
- Mildly irritating: 11 [12%]
- Other answer… 8 [9%]
- Divisive with resentments and arguments: 1 [1%]
- I want an eco-divorce, our values aren’t the same anymore 0 [0%]
The first two “other†responses represented a couple of readers who are probably expressing “green fatigue,†the U.K. term for the eco-backlash to a barrage of green moralism. While other comments divided evenly between support for a diversity of opinion and certain resentments:
- I’m tired of being told to be green.
- Get over it, never been green.
- They are willing to go along as long as I do the work.
- I’ve been green for years.
- Live with lazy parents.
- We respect each other’s opinion and live accordingly.
- We have eco-tension.
- Platonic homeowners here – with a divide. Non-divisive.
There are many things that may have affected the outcome of this poll. City dwellers are probably a little more eco-conscious to begin with since the decisions that lead to an urban lifestyle (walkable neighborhoods, commutes by mass transit, and multi-family housing) are in and of themselves environmental choices.
Age may also play a role as younger couples may have taken eco-values in consideration during their courtships, while older couples may have more conflicts since eco-values weren’t a part of the equation when they originally selected their partner.  At any age, eco-conversions can be painful when one partner adopts a green lifestyle while the other partner clings to the same-old ways of living.
Then there is the bias of geography. Eco-tensions would be dealbreakers in Seattle or Portland; a violation of strong, commonly held social norms. Here in St. Louis, not so much.
Given all the other things that can drive a wedge in a relationship—money, children, unemployment, ill health—eco-concerns pale in comparison. The bottom line is that most people don’t consider a difference of opinion about green living as a serious enough breach to jeopardize their partnerships. At least for now.
– Deborah Moulton