A mom sets bad example for her kids
Even before I was a teenager I’d tell the librarians at my local branch when someone would park in a disabled parking space without the proper permit. This was a good 15 years before the passage of the Americans with Disabilities Act of 1990 as well as before I became disabled in 2008. These days most drivers seldom park in a disabled parking spot without a permit.
But the loading space next to the disabled parking spot is another story. On Friday I was in the St. Louis suburb of Warson Woods Missouri (Manchester & Sappington). When I left the store I was visiting I see a mom unloading two kids from her car. One was a baby in a stroller and they other maybe 4-5 years old. My car was parked not in the disabled space to the left of her car but in the regular space to the right. I parked to the right of the loading zone because getting in and out of my car requires me to open my driver’s door fully.
As I made my way to my car I had to pass right by her. I said something like, “You know that is not a parking space?” She replied, “Oh, yeah.” I then told her that space is very helpful for those using wheelchairs and that she was setting a bad example for her kids. I was very upset. Perhaps I should get stickers printed to slap on a window — one of those that is hard to remove? But that would probably be considered an act of property damage or something.
The loading zone is critical for a ramp from a van but also a must when helping a passenger to get in and out of a manual wheelchair or even using a walker. As the Baby Boomers age we will see more and more people who need a bit of assistance — and space.
What really upsets me is she had the choice of two space nearly as close — the one in front of her car and the one in front of the disabled space. There was no shortage of parking, she just felt that she was entitled. I think when someone parks as she did they don’t expect to get called out by some who is disabled. Hopefully she will remember me.
– Steve Patterson